After posting last night, and not finding TNG on the one site, I looked on the other dating site – the one I actually met him on. And there he was, with the words under him saying he’d been on earlier that day.
So I did what any normal person does at midnight and emailed him. A whole long email calling him out on the fact that while he told me that he wasn’t ready for a relationship and couldn’t be responsible for anyone’s feelings, he was on dating sites daily and was obviously looking for someone to date. I think the way I put it was that he was trying to date all over the internet. It’s actually a pretty good email. The one big problem with it is timing. Three weeks after we he tells me he doesn’t want to see me anymore is not the time to send that kind of email.
I know he was on that site earlier today. I can only imagine he got the email. I’m trying not to think about it, because what can I do now? It’s out there. I’m not too upset about it because I wanted to say what I did. I just wish I’d done it sooner.